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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Meet Marley!




After a year of talking about how much I wanted a dog... While we were at yellowstone last summer, Russell finally gave in and decided I could have a puppy! My cousins, Jessica and Brian, breed Golden Doodles (and Basset Hounds.) I have wanted one for years. So this is all a dream come true for me.

Shortly after the puppies were born, we drove up to Idaho to meet our pup. It took a LONG time to pick out a name (with help from Grandma), finally we decided on Marley. The first movie Russ and I went to together was "Marley and Me." Christmas Day 2008. So I guess we are succors for the sentimental stuff.

Marley is growing bigger every day. He loves going on walks, children, eating time, squeaky toys, his knit elephant, watching Chuck on TV, and playing with Tank, the golden retriever next door.

Friday, November 12, 2010

If you're happy and you know it..


For the past few years I have worked as a group leader at Club Heights After School Program. This year is no exception. I get to work with the Kindergarten again this year. It is a lot of fun. And a lot of work. I get to hang with all the kids most the day, but spend an extra 45 minutes with just these adorable 5 year olds. This week has been especially difficult for Russ and I. We found out on Tuesday that Russ was laid off. I have been trying to have a good attitude and focus on school, work, and church stuff. Thursday I was on the stage (our afterschool classroom)with the kindergarteners. We were making Turkey hats. I was lost in thought thinking about grown up problems when a sweet little boy started singing, "If you're happy and you know it.." Pretty soon all of us were up singing and dancing and laughing. I felt silly for worrying about my grown up problems at work. I decided then and there that work is an opportunity for me to focus on these kids and THEIR needs. That can be very refreshing. I am here right now, surrounded by happy kids at Friday computers. No matter what's going on in the outside world, these kids sure know how to play. :)

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Rethinking Homework by Alfie Kohn

I was doing research for a class and I came upon this helpful and interesting article...
http://www.alfiekohn.org/articles.htm#null

After spending most of the day in school, children are typically given additional assignments to be completed at home. This is a rather curious fact when you stop to think about it, but not as curious as the fact that few people ever stop to think about it.

It becomes even more curious, for that matter, in light of three other facts:

1. The negative effects of homework are well known. They include children’s frustration and exhaustion, lack of time for other activities, and possible loss of interest in learning. Many parents lament the impact of homework on their relationship with their children; they may also resent having to play the role of enforcer and worry that they will be criticized either for not being involved enough with the homework or for becoming too involved.

2. The positive effects of homework are largely mythical. In preparation for a book on the topic, I’ve spent a lot of time sifting through the research. The results are nothing short of stunning. For starters, there is absolutely no evidence of any academic benefit from assigning homework in elementary or middle school. For younger students, in fact, there isn’t even a correlation between whether children do homework (or how much they do) and any meaningful measure of achievement. At the high school level, the correlation is weak and tends to disappear when more sophisticated statistical measures are applied. Meanwhile, no study has ever substantiated the belief that homework builds character or teaches good study habits.

3. More homework is being piled on children despite the absence of its value. Over the last quarter-century the burden has increased most for the youngest children, for whom the evidence of positive effects isn’t just dubious; it’s nonexistent.

It’s not as though most teachers decide now and then that a certain lesson really ought to continue after school is over because meaningful learning is so likely to result from such an assignment that it warrants the intrusion on family time. Homework in most schools isn’t limited to those occasions when it seems appropriate and important. Rather, the point of departure seems to be: “We’ve decided ahead of time that children will have to do something every night (or several times a week). Later on we’ll figure out what to make them do.”

I’ve heard from countless people across the country about the frustration they feel over homework. Parents who watch a torrent of busywork spill out of their children’s backpacks wish they could help teachers understand how the cons overwhelmingly outweigh the pros. And teachers who have long harbored doubts about the value of homework feel pressured by those parents who mistakenly believe that a lack of afterschool assignments reflects an insufficient commitment to academic achievement. Such parents seem to reason that as long as their kids have lots of stuff to do every night, never mind what it is, then learning must be taking place.

What parents and teachers need is support from administrators who are willing to challenge the conventional wisdom. They need principals who question the slogans that pass for arguments: that homework creates a link between school and family (as if there weren’t more constructive ways to make that connection!), or that it “reinforces” what students were taught in class (a word that denotes the repetition of rote behaviors, not the development of understanding), or that it teaches children self-discipline and responsibility (a claim for which absolutely no evidence exists).

Above all, principals need to help their faculties see that the most important criterion for judging decisions about homework (or other policies, for that matter) is the impact they’re likely to have on students’ attitudes about what they’re doing. “Most of what homework is doing is driving kids away from learning,” says education professor Harvey Daniels. Let’s face it: Most children dread homework, or at best see it as something to be gotten through. Thus, even if it did provide other benefits, they would have to be weighed against its likely effect on kids’ love of learning.

*** The article continues, along with bibliography

Friday, July 2, 2010

i work at wal-mart


So, my official job title... somewhere along the lines of "gate keeper." Sounds like something from the "Lord of the Rings." I sit at the back door of this Wal-mart super center. My job is to make sure the sub-contractors get checked into our computer system as they come to work and checked out as they leave. When they hired me, the man said, "You need a hobby. Do you knit?" He was right. I bought crayons and am almost done with a Chelsea Handler book. I do not often have access to the internet, but there are other things to do. I get to type up the boys' notes from their meetings. And often, I chat with the wal-mart associates. (That is the correct term.) Wal-mart has a policy that wherever there is an open door, there must be an associate. These people are there to make sure the contractors (and me) do not steal anything. They check receipts if we buy anything.. stuff like that. My favorite two associates are Carla and Kel. Even though my job is pretty simple, I sometimes get jealous of the wal-mart associates. They get breaks and lunches. And even a walkie talkie...

Friday, June 25, 2010

Pueblo, Colorado

The company Russell works for sent him to Colorado to work on a Wal-Mart re-model. He has been gone for a few weeks and I miss him like crazy. We had all sorts of home improvement projects we had planned this summer. Before he left, we tried everything we could to make it be so he wouldn't have to go.

Russ called me last week to inform me that the project needed some sort of secretary. After a trip out to the Wadman, a drug test, an application, and a little interview... I get to go live with my husband!! I am sort of a gate keeper/security/secretary person. Russ' parents lent us their camper. (It's HUGE) And we'll just be in Colorado till August. I am looking forward to this adventure, working with Russ, living in Colorado...

It seems that lesson I learned back in YW in the Pleasant Valley ward keeps re-surfacing, "You can't plan out every moment in your life." I think we can definitely make plans, but we cannot naively assume things will work out exactly how we first think they should. It seems that our summer is really working out in a great way. Not our original plan... but I think the path we are supposed to take. It amazes me that God cares about the little things, like what the Clarks do during the summer of 2010.

Friday, April 23, 2010

School is OUT!

It's such a nice feeling when school is out for the semester. I love it! PLUS my Lia Sophia stuff came today. It felt like Christmas. You'd think with the extra time I would have gotten the house clean. NOPE. Tomorrow. Today I relish in freedom of yet ANOTHER semester completed. Closer to the goal. MOving on to Level 3 in the teaching program. (after a math class this May)

Friday, March 26, 2010

Go Lakers!


Last night Kera, Natalie, and I took our Young Women to go see Bonneville's version of Les Miserables. It was really fantastic. I teared up three times. I have always loved that play but there was something really special about it being put on by a bunch of (EXTREMELY) talented high school students.

Standing in the foyer, waiting to take pictures with our girlies, I looked over at the gym, and then down the hall at the Junior lockers. High school smells, thoughts, and feelings started rushing back. Natalie (Dixon Stephens) turned to me and said, "This is weird. I feel self conscious again, like I did in high school." It was funny, I got the feeling I used to get on the way to PE with Burg? Can't remember the coaches name.

It's funny to think back on how the world looked and felt back then, and then to see how far we've all come. On the walk to the car, Natalie told me how she thought her life would turn out and how happy she is that it is different than what she had planned. All I could think was... ME TOO. ME TOO.

I don't think I could have imagined Russell if I tried. I love our life, even the daily struggle of it all. Happy times. Interesting the perspective you can get from attending a high school play.